Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Ice Ice Baby!
Inauguration...a little late
I woke up on the morning of the inauguration of President Barack Obama absolutely brimming with hope and excitement. When I got to work, I went to CNN.com and set the live feed. I did, however, go about the business of seeing kids and providing therapy. I just checked in on the feed now and then between groups. I had a break in my schedule from 10:00-12:00, partially due to one of my kids being absent. I went immediately to the school lobby to watch on a real TV since the internet feed was so slow and breaking up/freezing now and then. I was standing in the lobby with my Kleenex in hand and huge grin on my face when one of my co-workers said, "That would be the perfect place for a terrorist attack." I whipped around, astonished, and all I could do was just say her name like she was crazy in the head. She responded, "What? It'll happen in the next 4 years." I took a deep breath and said, "I'm going to have to go somewhere else." I then went to the library to watch, only to be greeted by 25 talkative 2nd graders. Strike 2. Finally, I went in one of the 1st grade classrooms, where the teacher was watching as closely as I wanted to and was encouraging her students to watch as well. If they chose not to watch, they were at least quiet. I pulled up a chair and sat almost gape-mouthed for the next hour. I grinned and cried and wondered what was up with Aretha's hat. I soaked up every single minute of it. I hung on every word of the inaugural address and felt the pride of the new President's wife and family as they looked at him. I got goosebumps when the TV showed the diversity (and enormity) of the crowd and how they were all so joined together, despite their differences. It was an amazing experience. I loved every second of it.
Once the address was over, I went quickly to the teacher's lounge to make my lunch, then returned to the lobby in time to see the benediction and departure of the dignitaries. I was standing there in amazement when one of my co-workers asked me how I was doing. I told her I was doing great. She replied with what I can only describe as a grunt. A few minutes later, she passed by again and said (where only I could hear her), "You should know I'm an extremely conservative Republican and a little bit of a racist." WHAT?!?! I could not believe that she said that. Who in their right mind would say that to a co-worker? I didn't even know how to respond. I could only say, "I don't think I would have told anyone that." I was stunned and amazed, but didn't let it deflate my excitement of the day. By the time I got home, I was exhausted from all the grinning and walking on cloud nine. :) I watched some of the coverage of the parade and then went to bed.
It was an amazing day and (I believe) a turning point for our country and our world. I am thrilled and excited and hopeful for the future. I can't wait to see what this administration has in store for us.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Weekend Update
As usual, our days have been filled with work and daycare. We've fallen back into the routine pretty easily. Now we're 3 weeks post-vacation and we're definitely on the downhill slide to summer! It's hard to believe that, considering how cold it is outside right now, though.
Last Friday, we went to Sherwood to spend the weekend with Memmie and Poppie. We had a great visit. On Saturday morning, we took Caleb over to Little Rock to The Wonder Place. He had a grand old time and was the only kid there with 4 adults trailing after him. His favorite part was the sand table. He would've stayed there all day if we had let him. Memmie and Poppie were amazed that a place like that existed. It just fueled my fire even more. Since the first time we went to Little Bitty City, I've been dreaming of opening a place like that in NWA. (If only I had the guts to abandon my teacher retirement, my stable income and my guaranteed benefits...) All that aside, Caleb did have a great time and we got home in time for his nap, which I had to be a part of to get him to lay down long enough to sleep. Once he finally dozed off, I took Memmie to Target to get some things that we both needed. Saturday night, Memmie made a wonderful home-cooked meal of meatloaf and vegetables. She was beside herself because Rudy and I are both trying so hard to lose weight and we didn't gorge ourselves at her house for the first time ever. The food is always so good - it's hard not to just make yourself sick on it. After dinner, Caleb played with his toys and the grown-ups played a couple of games of aggravation (our usual tradition). Caleb even laid on the couch and watched us for a while as though he knew how important it was for us to get to do that. Sunday morning, we went to church and lunch and then we hit the road for home. At lunch, we managed to surprise Poppie with a birthday sundae and Caleb sang to him. It was great!
Last night, we took Rudy's grandmother to dinner. After our wonderful meal at Carrabba's, we all came back here. We decided to show her the Wii, which completely amazed her! She even tried it out by bowling. I have pictures, but they aren't uploaded yet...
As I said, Rudy and I have been working hard to lose some weight. We started 3 weeks ago - January 3rd. Our incentive is our beach trip to Florida this June, but we're also just trying to be healthier. We've both been working out at least 5 days a week and we're holding each other accountable on Weight Watchers. Rudy has already lost a noticeable amount of weight. He joined the gym offered by his school district and is using the treadmill and weights. My school offers a personal trainer to a group of teachers 2 days a week and I've been taking advantage of that. In addition, we're both using the Wii Fit a few days a week. I haven't lost what I had expected to by now, but I have lost some and I'm working hard at it. I absolutely refuse to give up. I've set some small goals along the way to my big goal so that it isn't so overwhelming. I thought I had met my first small goal last week, but then inexplicably gained 2 pounds in one day after not eating any more than usual and working out really hard. This is why WW recommends that you only weigh once a week. The daily thing is frustrating!
Update on Caleb (since I know that's why you're here):
- He sleeps in his bed by himself most nights. Sometimes he does get up and make his way to our room. We really try to put him back in his bed, but if it's the middle of the night we usually take him to the guest bed. (I know, I know!)
- He has only had one potty accident at school since we started back after the break. That one accident happened at naptime, so that's not really a big deal. He did have an accident at Memmie and Poppie's on Saturday, but I think that was because we were out of his routine. It's to be expected.
- He is talking up a storm and cracking us up everyday.
- He loves the Wii and knows that we use it to exercise and play games. He likes to play the soccer balance game, the penguin balance game and the shooting game. His favorite part is creating Miis. We have made Miis for Jan, Mom, Mr. L, Memmie, Poppie and Grandma. Caleb can tell you who all of them are.
- Two weekends ago, we switched our office into a playroom for him. This meant selling our rarely-used elliptical machine, moving our library table/desk in the bedroom and moving our filing cabinet into our closet. That was kind of a pain, but it has been great to have that playroom. Caleb calls it his officeroom. He has his Little People table, his easel, a TV/DVD, his puzzles and all of his cars and trucks in one place. It is wonderful!
- Caleb has also developed a new fascination with Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. He loves to watch it in the mornings while sitting on our bed. He holds his Mickey Mouse stuffed animal the whole time. I heard him the other day saying, "Look, Mickey Mouse, it's you! It's you!" He knows the names of all of the characters (even Pluto) and talks about them all the way to school in the mornings.
- He loves his friends and his teachers at school and looks forward to going there every day. That makes me so happy! He talks about them all the time. He even told Rudy that Jaiden pushed him on the playground. We're starting to hear a lot about what everyone does at school. He especially loves it when someone has a birthday party! We've heard about Meredith and Levi's birthdays for a few weeks now. One day last week we were halfway home from school when he started freaking out because he forgot to tell Mrs. Natalie bye. I told him that would have to wait until the next day, because we weren't going back. I didn't think he'd go for it, but he seemed to understand. Whew...
My quiet time is over. The garage door just went up. Rudy is home with groceries that need to be put away.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Potty Mouth?
We were eating dinner tonight and I don't even remember what I was talking about, but I said, "dadgummit." Caleb looked up at me with those big blue eyes and said, "Mama, did you say G*d***it?" (This is a word that I NEVER use!) I quickly deduced that he was (hopefully) trying to say what I said, but just mixed up the sounds, like he says "boosegumps" and "filey faces." Rather than overreact at his mispronunciation of dadgummit, I told him the correct way to pronounce it. He then repeated it the correct way and we went on with dinner. No harm, no foul, no mouth washed out with soap. Lesson learned. Parental snickering mostly concealed.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Super Soaker
Last night, we thought we had him back to normal. He was doing great and playingand laughing and we had a wonderful evening together. I put him to bed at 8:00.He got up twice and came in the living room. Both times, Rudy silently put himback in bed and walked out. Around 9:00, I heard his bedroom door open, then lessthan a minute later, I heard it shut, but never saw or heard Caleb. I decided that hewas just checking on us and thought better of coming out of his room.
2:30 AM
Caleb: "Mama, Mama, I want to get in your bed."
Haley: "What's wrong? Are you sick?"
Caleb: "I sick in my bed."
Haley - scoops up a Caleb whose pajamas are soaking wet and heads for the bathroom
Rudy - jumps out of bed and runs to Caleb's room to assess the damage only to find that there is no "sick" in Caleb's bed. It's just wet. Very, very wet.
In my 2:30 AM daze, I deduced that Caleb's pull-up had leaked and he needed clean PJ's and a new pull-up. I pulled down his pants to change him only to see his bare bottom shining back at me. No pull-up. Seriously.
Apparently when Caleb got up at 9:00, it was to throw away the perfectly dry pull-up that I put him to bed in. He took off his PJ pants, took off his pull-up, threw his pull-up in the trash, put his PJ pants back on and got back in his bed. Of course, he then wet himself at 2:30 AM and didn't want to sleep in that soaking wet bed.
I (of course) asked, "Why did you do this?" He responded, "It's in the trash can." I gave up on that line of questioning pretty quickly. Rudy took Caleb in his fresh new PJ's and pull-up to our bed and I slept in the guest bed. 5:45 came too quickly.
I'm thinking that footy pajamas with a zipper may be in his near future...and we'reputting them on backwards so he can't get out of them.
For the record...Caleb is now in the process of going to bed - in footy pajamas with a zipper. No, they are not on backwards.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Sunday Night Rambling
On a happier note...we made some changes in our house this afternoon. It all started when we sold the elliptical machine that was in the office. We decided to turn the office into a playroom. So...the library table that we use as a desk is now in our bedroom and Caleb's easel, Elmo chair and Little People table are now in the playroom. Tonight, Rudy hung some shelves on the wall. We put the old TV in there and bought a cheap DVD player. We have already reaped the benefits of that. Caleb watched part of Cars in there tonight, which kept us from having to watch Cars again for the millionth time. With the mood that Caleb has been in this weekend, I had to remind myself that he's not always like that. Otherwise, the playroom would have been out of the question. However, it really benefits us all because it gets all of that stuff out of his room and opens up the room a lot more. Plus - we can get some of his toys out of the living room!
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Inaugural Prayer
http://www.maxlucado.com/president/
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Happy New Year!
Within the next 365 days, we KNOW that
- Caleb will turn 3, I will turn 33 and Rudy will turn 34.
- Rudy and I will celebrate our 10th anniversary.
- We will have a new President - the first President that Caleb will ever remember, just like Rudy and I remember Jimmy Carter.
- We will support each other in taking the steps to become healthier people.
- We will continue to encourage each other when we struggle and celebrate each other when we succeed.
- We will continue to thank God for all of the blessings that he gives us.
Within the next 365 days, we HOPE that
- We (and our friends and family) will be healthy.
- We will have a wonderful Florida vacation with Mom and Mr. L in June.
- We will have a wonderful 4th of July vacation in STL with the Villines family.
- We will finish and begin another school year without difficulty.
- We will have fewer trips to the pediatrician and convenient care.
- We will manage to finally get that 4-wheeler that Rudy has been eyeing for a long time.
- The world will become a healthier, safer and more peaceful place to live.
Some of these are big things and some of them are trivial, but that's what life is made of. Wishing you and yours a very happy, healthy and blessed 2009.
Travel, Woo Pig, Big Boy Bed, Christmas Detox, Etc.
Wednesday (New Year's Eve) was busy! We took Rudy's car in to the shop for a minor tune-up and then came back here to take down the Christmas tree. Rudy played with Caleb and kept him out of the way while I boxed and bagged everything up for next year. As sad as it is to have Christmas behind us again, I always enjoy getting the house put back together. When Rudy's car was finished, I took him to get it and then Caleb and I came home. Rudy went on a search for a new Christmas tree storage bag and went to get steaks, twice-baked potatoes and shrimp to cook for dinner. He struck out on the storage bag, so I ended up going out later for that after calling and finding one. While Caleb napped, we hauled all of the Christmas stuff up to the attic (this is when I miss having a basement) and rearranged some stuff up there for easier access. When we came down from the attic, I went on a clean-out binge and finally took care of the guest room storage closet and our office.
While I was doing all of that, Rudy went to Springdale. I decided over the break that I would really like to have a Wii and the Wii Fit software to work out with. I searched all over Benton County, but everyone was completely sold out, so I found one on the internet. The guy who was selling it met Rudy in Springdale yesterday. Since we got it home and set-up, we have had a lot of fun with it and Rudy and I have both commented that the workout on the Fit is great! Tonight, Rudy downloaded 2 games that he played when he was a kid. He was hilarious playing those old games!
When Rudy got back from Springdale, I set up the Wii and he cooked our amazing NYE dinner. The steaks were absolutely fantastic and the shrimp were so yummy! After dinner, we played with the Wii and watched a little football. We were pretty boring as far as New Year's Eve goes. Caleb had a lot of trouble going to sleep because he took a forever-long nap. He came out of his room about 10 times - each time with a different excuse:
- I need to go pee-pee.
- I can't find Woody's hat.
- The shadows are mean.
- I need to tell you something.
- I just looking for something.
- I don't want that nightlight.
- I want that nightlight.
- etc, etc, etc
We put him back to bed every time. Finally, he went to sleep. It was well after 10:00. I was in bed by 11:15, watching the annual tape-delayed coverage of Times Square. Rudy was in the recliner playing online poker. Woo-hoo! Party animals!
Today has been good start to the new year. We've watched football, eaten cheese dip, eaten black-eyed pea soup, taken naps, played with the Wii and even exercised some on the Wii. I cleaned out Caleb's closet and toybox to make room for the new stuff that he got for Christmas and to get rid of some things that were settling in the back of the closet and bottom of the toybox - never to be seen again! I learned a vital lesson: don't clean out the toybox when Caleb is in the house. Everything I pulled out of the toybox became his favorite toy ever. I finally managed to get it all boxed up and Rudy put it in the attic while Caleb was sleeping. Caleb's behavior today wasn't so hot because he was tired and grumpy, but we managed to make it through it and he went to bed tonight easier than expected. He only got up 2 or 3 times. :)
Tomorrow is a fun day for me. I'm getting my hair done and going to dinner and movie with Stacy! The boys are going to Nana's for dinner. I can't believe it's Friday already!!!