Thursday, July 30, 2009
Ready for Some Football
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Butterfly in My Tummy
I picked Caleb up from daycare and we came home to chill out for about 30 minutes before we got back in the car and went to the library. They had a kids' concert tonight with the Sugar Free All-Stars. He liked the music, but was more interested in the merchandise table that had some star-shaped sunglasses, which I proudly did not give in and buy. After the concert, we checked out a few books (Caleb picked a Thomas the Train book...UGH!). He said he wanted a hamburger for dinner, so we stopped at Wendy's and had a quick bite before coming home. His kids' meal came with an audiobook on CD and he was all jazzed about that even though he didn't really know what it was. I promised that he could listen to it when he went to bed. When we got home, he watched his obligatory 30 minute TV show and I convinced him it was time to go to bed so he could listen to his CD. Turns out, he thought it was a DVD and he was going to get to watch more TV. After that fit was thrown and I actually started the CD, he never made another sound. I'm guessing he was asleep within minutes.
I came in the living room after putting him to bed and fired up the computer. As usual, my pre-bedtime routine includes Facebook, e-mail, blogs, etc. Considering how much busier I've been today than the past few days, it sure feels good to sit down and relax. (Rudy is gone to the annual band directors' conference in Little Rock for a few days. Mom will be here tomorrow for the weekend.) So...I'm sitting in the chair, chatting with Stacy on Facebook when I felt a very definite *flutter* in my belly. HotShot has apparently decided that vacation is over and it's time to start moving around and making his/her presence known. Or, maybe it was just time to flip over on the lounge chair to avoid an uneven tan. :) Either way, this little one was first felt at 12 weeks, 5 days. Thus starts my favorite part of pregnancy...
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
YaYa Day
And Jackson running and gunning:
A Caleb Update
1. Routine, Routine, Routine: It's summer. We don't really have a routine in the summer. He was going to daycare 2 days a week to stay in the swing of things, but it really wasn't enough. One day on, one day off, one day on, 4 days off - that's not routine to a 3-year-old. We've increased him to 3 days a week (Tues, Wed, Thurs) and that has helped. I'm considering 4 days this week and 5 next week just to ease on back into the full-time schedule. Oh...and a lot of his friends moved up to an older class and some younger kids moved into his class. Caleb is (temporarily) the oldest in his class and is learning some not-so-lovely behaviors from the younger kids. He moves up to the older class in a few weeks - something that I'm happy about...but sad to move on from Mrs. Natalie and Ms. Lindsay, who we adore!
2. Sleep: We relaxed Caleb's bedtime for the summer. C'mon...it's hard to go to bed when it's still light outside! I think that plan backfired on us. He just wasn't getting enough rest. He hardly ever takes a nap at home (almost always does at daycare) and always gets up between 6:30 and 7:30 - no matter what time he goes to bed. So, basically on the days that he wasn't going to daycare, he was losing 2-3 hours of sleep a day. That does not make for a well-rested child...and a well-rested child is a much better behaved child.
3. Travel: This sort of goes with the other two. Since we've been out of school this summer, we've spent a lot of time traveling. Our trip to Florida, plus our trip to St. Louis, plus a week-long trip to LR and Hot Springs added up and took its toll on all of us. Rudy and I were tired and Caleb was extra-tired.
4. Grandparent Time: We LOVE our parents and Caleb LOVES his grandparents, but we all know that the rules are more lax and the little man runs the show when he's with his grandparents. Grandparent detox is completely worth it for Caleb to make the memories that he makes with his Grandma, LaLa, Pops, Pepapa, Mamaw, Memmie, Poppie, Nana, Grandma Morris and Grandpa Morris. We're certainly not complaining about that part...but it was a factor that can't be ignored.
Happily, things have smoothed out around here. Caleb is back to being funny and lovable for the most part. He's only going to time out about 2-3 times a week instead of 4-5 times a day, and I haven't even threatened to spank him in over a week. That's a huge improvement! His meltdowns these days are typically related to being tired, coming inside and cleaning up. That's totally to be expected.
Here are a few Calebisms just to prove that he's back to normal...
Random things he says for no particular reason - and directed to nobody in particular:
Float like a Cadillac, sting like a Beemer (this is from Cars)
Oklahoma! (this one worries us a little)
Go, Cardinals!
I big. I so tall now!
What's the big idea? (this is from Mickey Mouse Clubhouse)
A recent speech lesson gone awry -
Caleb: I want one piece of poilet paper.
Me: TOIlet paper.
Caleb: Terlet paper.
Me: laughing hysterically at my ghetto child
Fascination with HotShot -
My baby is HotShot. He growing bigger and bigger!
HotShot in Mama's belly.
HotShot growing in MY belly?
HotShot eating your food, Mama?
Me: "What will we call HotShot if it ends up being a girl?"
Caleb: (complete with look of exasperation) "Haley"
Me: "That won't work. My name is Haley and we can't have 2 Haleys."
Caleb: "Yes we can, Mama. HotShot is Haley AND you are Haley. It's okay."
He's pretty fascinated with names right now. He knows that my "other" name is Haley and his Daddy's "other" name is Rudy. He's a little confused that Daddy has 2 "other" names, but so is everyone else. :) He wants to know everything's "other" name - even if we have no idea what he's talking about!
Aside from Calebisms, he's completely smitten with baseball. Rudy bought him a t-ball and t-ball glove at WalMart yesterday and he loves it! He is getting pretty good at hitting the ball off of the tee and we'll probably sign him up for tee ball next spring. He still loves movies and has recently discovered The Incredibles. It scared the pants off of him the first couple of times, but now he watches it repeatedly. Mealtimes are getting a little better. We've started practically ignoring him when he doesn't eat or says he doesn't like what he has. We tell him he doesn't have to eat it, but he has to sit with us while we eat. Lo and behold...he usually cleans his plate. Caleb LOVES the swimming pool. Rudy got him a life vest that has floatie arms and a band around his chest and he can really get around the pool with it on. It keeps his face out of the water and he's all about it! (I'm signing him up for swimming lessons next summer.)
Oh...and my greatest accomplishment for the summer has been teaching Caleb to hold up the right amount of fingers to go with 1-2-3-4-5. He still struggles with the fine motor part of it, but he usually gets it right. I didn't think he would ever learn that!
Okay, enough of all that for now. Keep in mind - I just document to remember. You choose how much you want to read. :)
2 Arms, 2 Legs and a Strong Heartbeat
After the ultrasound and a lovely finger prick for blood tests, we went to see Dr. Ford. She didn't do any exam at all. She just asked how things were going, made sure I hadn't had any bleeding or cramping and said, "see you in 4 weeks!" I asked her about my UTI and she said that my in-office culture was fine, but that she would send it to the lab since I'm still having some kidney-area discomfort. I also asked about my feet swelling this early and she said it was probably more related to something I ate (too much salt) and the heat of summer. I told her that I've felt like I had the flu all summer with this crazy exhaustion and nausea. She said to give it 2 or 3 more weeks and I should be getting better. She (obviously) wasn't concerned about anything. I've always said that you can go into an OB's office with your arm hanging off by a tendon and they would say, "That's normal. It's just part of pregnancy!"
I go back to see Dr. Ford in 4 weeks.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Yikes! Two weeks to update...
On Sunday (7/12), Rudy started working at the UofA junior high music camp. Caleb and I left for a visit to central AR. Our first stop was in Sherwood, where we spent two days with my grandparents, Memmie and Poppie and my cousin, Mary Beth. We met them for lunch at Red Lobster. Caleb told me before they got there that he was going to by shy...and he stayed true to his word. It took several hours before he finally opened up. I was feeling a little extra-nauseous during lunch and ended up only choking down a baked potato. Caleb ate a few fries and he was done. It was a stressful meal for me. After lunch, we went to Memmie and Poppie's, where I managed to get Caleb to take a nap and took a short one myself. When Caleb woke up, we made a quick trip to Target for a few necessities and back home to play before bedtime. We stayed at Memmie and Poppie's until Tuesday morning.
When Caleb and I got up and around on Tuesday, we headed out for Hot Springs. As soon as we pulled in the driveway at Mom and Mr.L's house, Caleb giggled, "I so excited!" When I got him out of his carseat and he saw Pops in the doorway, he took off running to him and gave him a great big hug. It was great! From that moment on, he and Pops were joined at the hip and I got some much-needed rest. I seemed to struggle a lot with my pregnancy symptoms that week. I was tired and nauseous a lot. I hoped that it was a peak and I'd be feeling better soon.
Tuesday night, I had the pleasure of joining Mom and Aunt Harolyn for a get-together with 4 generations of women from our family. We visited at Aunt AnnaBelle's house and then had dinner at a restaurant. I have not laughed that hard in a very long time! It was a wonderful experience!!!
Wednesday through Friday, we did very little and it was great. We took a boat ride one evening, had dinner with friends on the back porch and caught up on lots of rest. Mom bought me a couple of dresses for some upcoming events and got me some new makeup too. Caleb just played...a lot. He fished with Pops and even caught a couple of little fish.
We left there on Friday and I dropped Caleb off at Jan's on Friday afternoon. I came home and Rudy and I had a quiet evening at home. Saturday, we went to run some errands. We took advantage of being kid-free and went to the AT&T store to look into upgrading our phones. I went in planning to get a Blackberry and ended up walking out with an iPhone instead. I really thought it would be more expensive, but it was actually cheaper! I've been learning to use it since then and have really enjoyed it. Rudy got a nicer phone than what he had and he likes it a lot too.
On Sunday, we went to Ft. Smith to get Caleb from Jan's and then met the Morrises for lunch. After lunch, we went to their house to visit for a while and then headed home. Caleb needed a little time to adjust to being home and back to our usual expectations. He has really been having some behavior problems lately. We've endured lots of tantrums and meltdowns, lots of refusals, yelling, etc. Mealtimes have become almost unbearable. I keep telling myself it's a phase, but it's a phase that we have to get through with some sanity. It seems to be getting better the past couple of days, so we'll see. We did start sending him to daycare 3 days a week instead of 2. I'm hoping that the increased routine will help. He'll do 3 days for a week or so, then bump up to 4 in anticipation of back-to-school week. (ugh)
Rudy's neck is bothering him this week. It started yesterday (Tuesday) and he was down for the count. Today he pushed through it because he couldn't stand sticking around the house again for a 2nd day. He's still hurting tonight, but has managed to stay away from the pain pills.
I am gradually feeling better. Some days are much better than others. I made it all day yesterday without any nausea meds, but not today. Sleep has become an issue. I am so tired all the time, but as soon as my head hits the pillow, my eyes pop open and my mind starts racing. By the time I finally fall asleep (wee hours of the morning), I conk out completely and then morning comes very quickly. I've been sleeping in and taking naps as much as possible to make it through the days. This has to get better soon, though! As bad as I hate to admit it...August is right around the corner.
I go to the OB next week. On Tuesday, I'm doing the early screen and then seeing Dr. Ford for my usual checkup. I had a bladder infection last time I went and the antibiotics that I had to take made me really sick - to the point that I wondered if I might have the flu. I'm hoping that the antibiotic really knocked out the infection because I don't want another round of that.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
10 weeks - 1st belly shot
Thursday, July 9, 2009
3 year well visit
I took Caleb for his 3 year well "baby" visit on Wednesday. I wasn't so sure it was going to be a well visit, since he ran a mystery fever from Monday night until Tuesday afternoon. He perked up, though and the nurse said we could go ahead with the visit. (He does still have a nasty cough and a raspy voice. He may have to go back tomorrow!)
Dr. Scherer looked Caleb over and asked me about 1000 questions about his skill development and pronounced him healthy. He is concerned about his height/weight proportion, though. I swear, people, he doesn't eat that much and he's on the go constantly! He weighed 35 lbs, 9.6 oz, which is at the 79th percentile for weight. He's 37.25 inches tall, which is at the 30th percentile for height. Yes...I see the disproportion. No...I'm not concerned. We continue to offer him new foods and he's started to like more fruits, but won't touch vegetables. We'll keep offering them, but we won't force them. He doesn't eat a lot of sweets, but does like them when we give them to him. He gets lots of exercise and plenty of sleep and he's meeting or surpassing his developmental milestones. Not that I'm being defensive or anything... :)
Therapized Calebism
Apparently, I have therapized my child. Actually - I think I therapized Rudy too. He's the one that has been trying to teach Caleb how to say "Cardinals" instead of "Cardiners" for a while now. I guess he has seen me prompt Caleb to "watch my tongue" or "watch my mouth" when teaching him new words.
Caleb: We watchin' the Cardiners?
Rudy: Yep, watchin' the Cardinals.
Caleb: Watch my tongue. Cardiners...Cardiners...CardinALS! I did it!
Tonight, they repeated the whole routine while trying to learn to say the word "girl." However, tonight's therapy session took place in front of the bathroom mirror at Caleb's request. Apparently, he wanted to watch his own tongue.
While I'm on the subject of Cardinals, we're trying to figure out who "Todd" is. I know Todd Wellemeyer is a pitcher, but I don't think that's who Caleb is fascinated with because he always talks about Todd when he's hitting the ball, not when he's throwing it. I think he heard us say "Yadi" (Yadier Molina) and has also heard us talk about his uncle Todd and he's just confused. Tonight, he and Rudy were playing baseball in the backyard and he said, "Daddy, you be Yadi, I'll be Todd."
Saint Louis ~ Sunday & Monday
When we left the restaurant, we made a quick drive through our old neighborhood, but nobody was outside to say hi to. We headed on back to the house and played THREE more games of marbles before we all decided we'd better turn in for the night. Jerry and Sherry had to work on Monday and Rudy, Caleb and I had a long trip home ahead of us.
Our trip home was (thankfully) uneventful. When we got home, Caleb said he was tired, so he and I took a nap together in the bed while Rudy took one on the couch. I tried to wake Caleb up for Gymboree class, but he wouldn't budge!
Saint Louis ~ Saturday
Friday, July 3, 2009
Saint Louis ~ Friday
And in July 2009:
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Saint Louis ~ Thursday
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Saint Louis - Wednesday
We got to St. Louis around 2:30 and went straight to the Magic House. It was amazing! They've doubled the size since we last visited right before we moved. Caleb loved it...and Rudy and I did too! I'll put all of the pics from our trip on Shutterfly, but here are a few of my favorites:
One of the new parts that we haven't seen before is the government area. It has a courtroom, a legislative chamber and an Oval Office. Here's Caleb on the witness stand. We told him to say, "You can't handle the truth!" He did and got a big laugh, so he repeated it about 20 times. He thought it was hilarious!
And here's our future president hard at work in the Oval Office!
After the Magic House, we went to Jerry, Sherry and Rebecca's house. They are so gracious to not only give us a place to stay for free, but also to feed us and agree to whatever we want to do the whole time we're there. We love visiting with them and always have a great time. We were treated to a wonderful homemade lasagna dinner on Wednesday night!